You are important to this world whether you like it or not, you just don’t know it yet. But, you need to self-manage first!
Self-management is like trying to balance a plate of jollof rice at a rowdy owambe you need skill, awareness, and quick reflexes. It’s your ability to regulate your behaviors, thoughts, and emotions in a way that helps you move forward, no matter the chaos around you.
In Nigeria, where life moves at the speed of a danfo driver chasing the last passenger, self-management is not just a skill, it’s survival. From chasing Lagos traffic without losing your temper to managing your monthly salary so it doesn’t disappear before the next alert, the art of self-discipline is what separates the overwhelmed from the in-control.
It’s not easy, but it’s possible. And it’s worth it. If you can master self-management, you won’t just survive, you’ll thrive. Here are seven key skills to help you stay ahead.
Time Management – No African Time Allowed
Nigerians love to say, “I’m on my way,” when they haven’t even left the house. But in a world where opportunities move fast, time management is your best bet. Prioritize your tasks, set realistic deadlines, and make peace with the fact that procrastination is the enemy of success.
Whether you’re a corporate executive in Abuja or a budding entrepreneur in Yaba, or Molete,or anywhere else, effective time management will help you stay on top of your game.
Self-Motivation – Ginger Yourself!
Nobody will push you like you push yourself. You must learn to find motivation from within, because sometimes, life won’t hand you inspiration on a silver platter. It’s easy to be motivated when things are going well, but true discipline comes from pushing forward even when things aren’t rosy. Tap into your inner drive, set personal goals, and remind yourself why you started in the first place.
Stress Management – No Go Dey Do Pass Yourself
Nigeria itself is a test of patience, power outages, fuel scarcity, and endless queues can stress even the calmest person. But you must learn to manage stress before it manages you. Know when to take a break, breathe, and recharge. Learn to set boundaries at work and in your personal life. And remember, no be every wahala you go carry for head, some battles are best left alone.
Adaptability – Shine Your Eye
Nigeria will humble you if you’re not flexible. One day, dollar is N700; the next, it’s N1,200. Policies change, the economy shifts, and suddenly, you have to think on your feet. Being adaptable means embracing change and moving with the tide without losing your footing. Whether you’re switching careers or adjusting your business model, flexibility will keep you relevant.
Decision-Making – Use Your HQ
Every day, you make decisions that shape your future, from what business to start to whom to marry. Good decision-making requires critical thinking and a clear mind. Avoid making rushed choices based on emotions alone; instead, weigh your options and seek wise counsel. Remember, not all opportunities are blessings, some are well-disguised stress.
Goal Alignment – Eyes on the Prize
What’s your big picture? What are you working toward? Nigerians love to hustle, but hustling without a clear goal is like running on a treadmill, you’re sweating, but you’re not moving forward. Set SMART goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-bound), align them with your overall vision, and track your progress. Small, consistent steps will always beat aimless grinding.
Personal Development – Upgrade No Be Scam
Staying the same is a recipe for irrelevance. Keep learning. Attend workshops, take courses, read books, and seek mentors. Just as your phone needs regular updates to function well, your mind and skills need constant upgrading. Personal development is not a luxury, it’s a necessity.
Final Thoughts…
Life in Nigeria is not for the faint-hearted. The world is scattered, and it’s easy to feel lost. But if you master self-management, you’ll move through life with confidence, clarity, and control.
So, no matter what life throws your way, just remember: regulate yourself, keep your focus, and move with sense.
After all, as we say in Naija, las las, we go dey alright.
