I have been invited by my brother George to speak tomorow on man and masculinity and he promptly gets his very beautiful wife to shoot the promo and doesn’t stop at that, he goes ahead to get another female friend to also shoot another promo.
I am expected to speak on masculinity and the issues that surround us all under the morbid control of the women around George.
George is not alone in this sphere of weakling cowardice. This generation of men totally subdued by so called enlightened sophistication and western influences have been reduced to nothing but a caricature of our very strong fathers.
Today, the average Nigerian man moves from the docility of his father’s house to the docility of his wife’s bossom. He takes permission to go out, permission to take a job, permission to go see his mother and in some cases get his salary paid directly to his wife.
The greatest fraud of the 20th century is the notion that women are the weaker sex. Women are by any standard not the weaker sex at all. They are infact leaders of a terror based structure that has over the years achieved institutional support working very closely with weakened men.
They use sex, feminine guile and a strong capacity to build a stark raving mad mob depending on the issue to wrestle down men and the system to get their way while still flying the – we are the weaker sex flag so we don’t fight back.
You hear men say, Edgar u no dey fear, women will come at you o. Men fear women coming at them so they back down on every fight no matter how rational they want to be
The most rabid of the women are the single, divorced, widowed kind. The ones that life and love have shown pepper. They are unrepentant in their quest for revenge. They misguide others, push them to disrespect authority and hide under feminism to wreck havoc on society.
Sadly, men allow this because they don’t want trouble and watch their marriages, their daughters, their careers and their businesses upturned due to the influence of this sphinx who seize every opportunity to jump in.
My marriage was once infested by these vermins. They surrounded my wife and pushed her out of the house.. They offered to rent a – halfway house for are and saying – ohh u can’t stay with him any more, he is a philanderer he will never change and he will give you AIDS.
I told her clearly – I will get down with two of these six very easily in a week of your departure, so you had better get some sense. Sometimes, you would see a divorced, heavily wrinkled old hag selling beer parlour in surulere asking you to leave your home with two small children. My 22 year old son was 4 years then and you sef want to leave and go and be selling peppersoup to browned teeth old soldiers at Ojuelegba because I mess around? Do u even have sense?
Men cannot allow people who are ruled by emotions to lead them. A human whose decision taking process can be affected by hot flushes, delayed period or an unwanted pimple will now come and be takin hard decisions that would have implications on life?
I have grown beyond the fear of woman. I love them and will partner with them only on my terms. Women need to be guided, supported and encouraged. Women can aspire to leadership if only they stop being women.
A lot have achieved this and plenty more will but sadly the vast majority will remain women and truth is that men out of fear will continue to allow them be women.
Let’s talk more on this tomorrow. Reach me for link if u are interested in joining.
